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Where Do 20's and 30's Find Church?

One of the large churches in town recently had its site and building bought by a brewery chain - it has been renamed: The Pulpit. It is a town-centre focus for 20's and 30's, who would never have dreamed of going near the building when it was a church. Why is it that 20's and 30's are happy to 'worship' at the altar of consumerism, music, clubbing, their job, etc - even to explore alternative spiritualities of every shape and size - but are increasingly reluctant to worship Jesus Christ, especially within the context of a local church ? Why is it that they would be happy to think about the human Jesus of Nazareth or argue about his teaching, but would find the way we worship God in the average local church a boring and irrelevant experience ? Why is it that they enthusiastically form part of the club community but the fellowship of the local church leaves them cold ?

These are questions we urgently need to grapple with if the church is to survive in a meaningful, vibrant way for today's generation. As a Vicar with large numbers of 20's and 30's in our congregation, such questions have exercised the thinking that was already being shaped by my own experience. I was converted at the beginning of my 20's, having found student life, clubbing and the rugby club a distinctly more relevant part of my life than I had ever found the church in which I grew up. Having found Jesus Christ to be a fantastically vibrant person, and a relationship with him that changed my life, I was even more aware of the irrelevance of a lot of church life, and set out to be involved in change, to find a church that was different, that my generation could relate to, and to encounter Christians prepared to make a difference.

So many in our society regard Christianity as unnecessary and outdated - so many, in fact, that Archbishop George Carey was recently quoted as saying: "The Church is one generation away from extinction". He reminded us that "our generation is being called to hand on our faith to the generations of the third Millenium. It will require all our vigour, all our energy, all our faith and enthusiasm".

Consider for a moment this quote from a book called Last night a DJ saved my life by Frank Broughton with Bill Brewster. "Yes, the DJ is a god. Or at the very least, he's our connection to another world. In times past we looked to religion to give us some kind of release from our dull working lives. Today we go out dancing. Of course, long ago the two things were combined, and religion - of the pagan variety - was all about eating sacred potions and dancing till you dropped. These days the closest most of us get to church is a nightclub. In a club we worship life, we worship our bodies, our youth, our sexuality. And those sacred potions are definitely in evidence. Many of us would be happy to confess that dance music is our religion. It is only natural then that we worship the figure at the centre of it all, our high priest - the DJ". How can we hand on our faith to this generation ? How can we worship God and explore a vibrant relationship with Jesus Christ that impacts their lives and pulls no punches ? How can we both present the great truths of our faith in a way that is relevant to 20 and 30 year olds, and do church in a way they don't feel is a boring and irrelevant experience that they want to avoid ?


Taize young adult gathering

Every generation needs to fight its own battles and create apologetics, church systems and ways of communicating to their culture that are relevant for its time. Consequently, I spend a lot of my time investing in those who are leaders and mentors, those who disciple and teach today's generation of 20 and 30 year olds. However much I grapple with the way we do church, with making the way we worship and teach a relevant experience for today's generation, there are leaders emerging today who will eventually do it better than I will because they are living and growing to maturity in today's culture. I consider it to be one of the driving forces of my ministry to identify and disciple, to mature and equip the young men and women who will lead today's church into tomorrow's expression of worship, teaching, fellowship and evangelism that will change communities and nations for Jesus Christ.

I spend time every week talking to parents who are examples of my own generation who walked away from church because it was boring and irrelevant and, as they became increasingly affluent and climbed the employment and social ladders, definitely didn't present them with a challenge and cause to live for that made any sort of sense in their lives. Some of their sons and daughters are part of my congregation, and my children are growing up with theirs. I have a desperate longing that these young people can be part of a church to which they can unashamedly invite their friends, and in which their parents will find a challenging presentation of a relevant Christ and an experience and expression of worship that is an exciting place to be.

The other day I chose to watch a Six Nations Rugby match, not with a cosy group of guys from church, but with a group of non-Christian parents among a crowd of several hundred other guys. For me, that was an expression of where today's church is called to be, and I encourage the 20 and 30 year olds of my congregation to get out there among their contemporaries and find relevant ways of relating so that opportunities to talk about Jesus come out of their conversations. A group of them have built an opportunity one night a week to present not a DJ who is to be worshipped as the high-priest of the club scene but Jesus Christ, and to 'walk the talk' as they seek to 'catch fish' in their own way among their own generation in places where they feel at home. It is one of the great privileges of my life to be able to pray for these people, to encourage them, to stimulate their thinking about the radical implications of faith in Jesus Christ and to be alongside them as together, and only in the power of the Holy Spirit, we grow as a church which engages with our society in a way that is attractive and relevant.

For many years, the church in which I grew up gave the impression of being hopelessly behind the times, and often tatty and unpolished. While the major public and national church occasions dripped with glamour and precision, local church literature and communication materials and methods represent a by-gone age which society found sub-standard and irrelevant. Today's generation has been born when even the fax machine was out of date, and when multi-media and well-produced brochures are a way of life, helped by state of the art technology. The Holy Spirit's power is not dependent on presentation, nor do we need every last piece of modern equipment available at every service. But in our presentation of the gospel, in our publicity materials, and statements about ourselves, many today find us dowdy and behind the times and inclined to push us away even before they walk through the door.

I ask myself: Why is it that the same parents I encounter charging up and down the touchline with me yelling encouragement as they watch their sons play rugby, don't expect those they know who go to church to be equally enthusiastic about their faith in Christ ? Also, why is it that the ladies my wife encounters in our congregation and in small groups have non-Christian friends who perfectly understand an enthusiasm for buying clothes but don't expect equal vibrancy in church ? If today's and tomorrow's generation are going to reach their contemporaries for Christ, we have to provide now an enthusiastic and biblical expression of Christian faith and worship which will give them a strong base from which to reach out, a secure environment in which they can be nurtured, and a church where God dwells by His Spirit to which they are not ashamed to bring their friends.

My children are now beginning to enter teenage years, and I am determined that, as they grow in their personal faith, they will never have to look back - as I did - on a church that was so boring and irrelevant that I walked away as fast and as soon as I could. I want them to be excited by experiencing God's presence in worship, to know His word and apply it to their lives, to grow in maturity, and to enthusiastically reach out to their friends with the good news about Jesus. They are tomorrow's generation - I want to so encourage today's generation that they will lead that church into an exciting future.

Mark Bailey leads Trinity Church, a growing church in the centre of Cheltenham, with 1000+ worshippers at weekends. He is also on the leadership team of New Wine.

Mark Bailey
Article by The Church of England Newspaper

 
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