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These opportunities come about because postmodern 20-30
year olds are searching for among other things integrity,
community, spirituality, mystery and meaning. These
aren't new things for people to be searching for, however
the cynical nature of those in this age group mean that
any responses from Churches need to be considered and
genuine.
So what's working?
Within the New Wine network of churches, as well as
in other networks, there are a number now committing
time and resources to actively engaging with the 20s-30s.
There are no easy answers or totally adaptable programs,
but there are some principles to consider when trying
to present good news about Jesus to our postmodern culture.
Community
The 20s-30s are sometimes called the Friends Generation
after the TV programme of the same name. A group of
friends who share each others lives with lots of laughs
and occasional tears. In reality a group of extremely
highly paid actors/actresses who are currently worried
that one of their number David Schwimmer is threatening
to turn his back on their lucrative fantasy world to
go and do something he believes genuinely worthwhile
like teaching.
However the Friends fantasy world is one that many
20s-30s long for, true friends whose houses or more
likely flats they can pop in and out of anytime and
who will as the theme song said 'be there for them'.
One of the things that we've tried to do at St.Barnabas
is create 'Space'. Space for God, for friends and for
others.
We're actively encouraging the 20s-30s to meet weekly
in small groups. There's nothing new about Churches
having small groups, these are possibly different because
they are focused on that age group. They are also focused
around friendship and support. The teaching input is
informal and often involves talking about whether what
was heard on Sunday effects our lives on Monday morning.
The groups are encouraged to take on 'Social Action'
challenges together such as renovating a youth centre
or laying a patio for an after-school club. They're
encouraged to pray for each other, to socialise together
and to have fun. Jesus said in John's gospel that he'd
come so that his followers could have life in all it's
fullness. Yet many Christians appear to be the most
unfulfilled people around. These groups attempt to get
below the surface of our Christian platitudes and help
each other to get real in an unreal world.
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Spirituality
While cynical about religious institutions 20s-30s
are still hungry for spiritual reality. They often believe,
in the words of the X files, that 'the truth is out
there' and yet they are not keen to identify with any
one truth. One of the effects of the postmodern challenge
to the modern belief that everything has to have a reasonable
and rational explanation, is that 20s-30s are more likely
to want 'an experience' of the supernatural.
Once a month our small groups or 'Pods' as they're
sometimes known, get together for Holy Space. Effectively
this is an informal congregation, where different people
are encouraged to lead. It's still in its infancy and
the hope is that those who come will explore different
ways of worshipping Jesus. The danger is that whatever
tradition we're from whether highly liturgical or not
we can become lazy about creativity. We fall back to
our default style, we don't encourage exploration of
valid forms of worship from other traditions that may
be helpful to our members, even if they're not our own
favourites.
Those in their 20s-30s can get bored quickly, and while
we mustn't pander to our instant culture we do need
to allow the freedom for people to experience different
styles of worship.
Reality
The search for meaning continues, however postmodern
20s-30s will happily accept lots of different meanings
with an 'if it works for you that's great, but it's
not right for me' attitude. Our Christian witness at
this time in history can't be to a moral code, a system
of rituals or an institution, rather it must be that
following Jesus makes life work. Before that's accepted
by many of today's 20s-30s they will need to see it
in action many times through the Church practising what
it preaches, for instance loving it's neighbour and
being good news to the poor.
Many of those in Space are involved in christian projects
and will get their unchurched friends along to help
and to see the Church in action.
We are living in an incredibly exciting time and we
have a message that is still incredibly good news. Whether
we like it of not postmodernity is here to change things,
how we respond to that challenge will determine the
future of the Church in this nation.
Simon Kirby is co-leader of the 20's - 30's stream
at New Wine and pastor for this age range for St. Barnabas
Church, North Finchley, London.
For more info about New Wine call 020 8567 6717, email
info@new-wine.org
or visit www.new-wine.org
Simon Kirby
Article by The
Church of England Newspaper
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